Discomfort Zone

Day 10:  Describe a time you stepped outside your comfort zone and what you learned.

Outside of "Nom nom for us, David," this is probably the Schitt's Creek line I think about most!

David Rose is high strung -- his nervous system is always buzzing in a way that's oddly endearing to people like me (and Patrick).  In this episode, he's panicking about retaking his driver's test, lamenting that people like Alexis seem to "skate through life" with fewer problems and worries.  As he spirals wanting to make a good impression, Alexis calmly reminds him: "People aren't thinking about you the way you're thinking about you."  Then as he's about to leave, she adds: "David, nobody cares!" 

I feel that.

Over the past three years, I've done loads of things that felt awkward, scary, and outside of my comfort zone -- like navigating solo trips, counseling role-plays, real sessions, big interviews, medical procedures, and tough conversations.  One step at a time, discomfort has pushed me to grow, to lean on God for strength and wisdom, to focus on the other person's comfort more than my own self-consciousness.  It strengthens me to remember 2 Timothy 1:7 (that God gives us power, love, and sound judgment; never fear).  And when my nervous system overreacts, it's liberating to breathe and remind myself, "nobody cares."  Life is messy, and most people are too busy thinking about their current needs or their own awkward moments to stop and scrutinize mine.  We have the option of coasting apathetically, but meaningful goals require us to do hard things.  I love you and believe in you, and I believe in your ability to choose courage over comfort when it matters!! ❤